S.E.L.F. L.O.V.E.

I never fully understood the true definition of self-love until I was placed in a situation that had me compromise everything, I believed in. In this situation I molded myself into a completely different person. As a result, I experienced much pain because I allowed another human being to use and manipulate me.

I did not love myself.

 I am ashamed that I deprived myself of the proper care and love that I deserved. Searching for someone else to make me feel loved, when I was the one that needed to care for myself most.

This Valentine’s Day (year) I am devoted to giving back to AJ (myself).

Spoiling myself, nurturing myself and getting to know myself better. It is never too late, to take a break and care for yourself! Embarking on this self-love journey has made me dig deeper within myself to face my insecurities and past traumas. I am learning more about myself each day. I am more patience with my growth. I am not beating myself up for what I use to tolerate from others and myself. I am accepting myself unconditionally no matter what.

Lately, I have been selfish with my time and what/who I decide to share my energy with! I love it here lol.

What are you doing for yourself this Valentine’s Day?

Outfit details - Men’s white button up (Thrifted) and High-waist jeans (Zara)

Sending each of you a virtual hug.

Remember, you can not pour from an empty cup, take care of yourself FIRST!

 -Aj